server blues

Q: I want to sleep with my coworker.  I am only 22 and work at a restaurant, this is not my career, but I do plan on living "here" for a while.  The tension is becoming too much and I just plain want to.  Can you justify that? 

- server blues 

A: Go for it! You're probably hot, he/she is probably hot.  Be safe, have fun, don't hurt feelings.  all it takes to deescalate that, is that you need to acknowledge the situation and agree to be causal until further notice.  Be your hot 22-year-old self.  Be safe, wear a condom.